Would you believe me if I told you that ascending to Heaven in none other than being thought of by someone and causing a Soul to ascend to Heaven is none other than thinking of Someone?
If you don't believe me, then remember when you were a Child and someone made you know that they thought of You.
Try to hold everyone You know in mind. It will be difficult to think about them all individually and picture them individually in Your Mind, but invite them all to be on your Mind and in your Heart always.
When you can do that, expand that invitation to everyone on the planet.
When you can do that, expand the invitation to everyone that ever lived.
When you can do that, expand the invitation to everyone in every generation - including those not born yet.
Now invite them all to Your Birthday Party - which is every day.